#12130108, By GameCriticDOTcoDOTuk Match.com and Online Dating v2

GameCriticDOTcoDOTuk 2 Feb 2018 20:40:34 551 posts
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quadfather wrote:

GameCriticDOTcoDOTuk wrote:
@quadfather Why is it the wrong time?
I'll fucking tell you why. Because I spent a lot of time thinking about your situation and gave the best advice I could think of. You then blatantly ignored this because it wasn't what you wanted to hear and didn't fit with your plans to be selfish.

And now I see your recent posts and it's clear you're just a user.

I tried to help, and it was a waste of time.

My question to you is, why do you go to such lengths to be this devious? What the fuck drives that?

And please for fucks sakes don't start with the "I don't know how to speak to people" bollocks

I actually want the truth as to why you're like this.

You won't give that to me I know, but I want to sow a seed in your mind to make you realise how fucked up you are.

Well I appreciate your reasons and honesty. I also appreciate your advice. I am sorry you feel upset and I have betrayed you by not following your advice. That does not mean I did not listen, read and hear the words you wrote because I did.

You are right that part of me can be a user sometimes but I imagine everyone goes through that at some point in their life after a breakup. The problem I am facing is my ex-girlfriend broke up with me and I could not accept it. She has explicitly told me to move on which I do NOT want to do.

Therefore I am looking to talk to girls and try to boost my confidence. Also I want to meet people, get to know them, talk to them and just go through the motions. I need to give my ex-girlfriend space in case she does take me back in the future. If she doesn't, at least I will be better at dating.

Does that sound like a user to you? Or someone who lacks lot of life experience? I am trying to learn how to be a normal, healthy human being too. Nobody here can change in 1 day.

And again thank you for explaining yourself, again you stated you did not have to do that but it still meant a lot to me.

Sorry if I hurt your feelings but I do feel this is a big misunderstanding.