#12892065, By puddleduck Match.com and Online Dating v2

  • puddleduck 25 Apr 2021 15:10:40 2,002 posts
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    It sounds like you understand your position well. The only advice is to communicate some of that to her. Ask her about her own thoughts and go from there. You and anyone else above is speculating about what, and why, she's thinking/saying.

    Is there a reason you wouldn't ask her what she thinks drives her desire to get more verbal clues? Maybe she's been hurt in the past. Maybe, and this is really out there, maybe being viewed as someone who only satisfies you physically worries her. No one here knows, but she will.

    From your side, it might work longer term or it might not. But either of those possibilities need you to be honest with yourself and her. Which from my side is to ask have you shared with her that you like her and where things are? Does she know outside of your physical bonding that you think things are going well and you find it hard to share that verbally?

    Edited by puddleduck at 15:12:57 25-04-2021

    Edited by puddleduck at 15:13:56 25-04-2021
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