#10424328, By Devastated Devastated

  • Devastated 7 Jul 2014 07:27:22 19 posts
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    I've created a new account to post this as I have no real life friends I feel I can discuss this with.......

    I've just caught my partner of 15 years cheating on me.
    She started acting strange with her phone (which is my name as I pay the bill) so I checked an itemised bill and found she had been texting one number over 1100 times over a period of a month. When I challenged her she claimed it was a friend from work who was going through a nasty break up but wouldn't give any more details.
    A few days later she was supposed to be going out with friends but I tracked her to a local hotel by locating her phone (in my name remember so I have access to the tracking details).

    I obviously challenged her on this when she came home at 0300 and she came clean and admitted she had meet another man. She says they were in bed together in their underwear but claims (and I do believe this) that they didn't have sex just kissing cuddling and minor fondling but not touching of parts where the wee come from. She says he is prepared to drop everything to take her away personally I think this is total rubbish and he was just trying to get in her knickers and she has says she know what she has done is wrong and she wants to be with me.
    She is phoning him today to say it is all over and break off all contact.

    What do I now do?
    I've never been in in a situation like this before, my head says kick her out my heart doesn't want to lose her. And then there are the kids to think about.......
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