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@solidsneek I've gone through a similar experience over the last year, and for those first few months it was fucking torture. We were together for 14 years, before she basically decided that she'd had enough and that the relationship/marriage was over. (Totally and utterly out of the blue, no warning, no arguments or awkwardness leading up to it, just "We're done") It's been a year, and I'm in a lot better place emotionally than I was over those first couple of months. It's not perfect by any means, I can't lie, (as was mentioned above) the reality of the situation can still hit you and hurt like a mother fucker 12 months down the line, even when you think that you're totally over it all. But I've tried my hardest not to let all this shit totally break me down. Since the break up I've learned to drive, lost over two stone through dieting/gyming, absolutely nailed my degree studies (Distinctions all round), and am now in a good enough position to be job hunting and getting interviews. It's hard, and requires a shit load of will power, but it does get easier as the weeks/months go by. |
#11958204, By captainrentboy Depression
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