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Have you already tried one whilst in a relationship? Was is planned or spontaneous? Aside from the obvious sexual gratification*, did it have any effects - good or bad - down the line? How did you ensure that your partner would be completely comfortable with the experience? (*10 years of porn have conditioned me to believe that a threesome is the Holy Grail of human sexuality and that after I have done it, I will bask in a state of ultimate bliss forevermore, safe in the knowledge that my life is finally complete. Obviously that isn't the case, but it's hard to argue with your penis. So... input welcome. Preferably based on 1st-hand experience.) (PS I'm referring to a FFM threesome. A MMF threesome is out of the question. Hypocrisy FTW! That being said, if your past contains MMF, MMM or FFF cavortings, then feel free to pitch in as well.) |
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sirtacos 8,279 posts
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smoothpete 37,743 posts
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Registered 17 years agothis will be locked in no time -
Dougs 100,415 posts
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Registered 18 years agoUnless you're in a relationship that has no emotional attachment (or not in one at all), then this can only end badly imo. Sounds great, but in practice is still cheating.... -
X201 22,150 posts
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Registered 16 years ago/ sets up deck chairs and starts taking orders for baked potatoes and hot dogs. -
speedofthepuma 13,428 posts
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Registered 16 years agoNever been interested in one personally, but thanks for the offer. -
askew 24,121 posts
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Registered 16 years agoMMF AKA 'Devil's Threesome' -
Biggy316 25,288 posts
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Registered 13 years agoI've had a MMFF 4some with my ex gf and a nice couple we drunkenly met in the pub.
It was awesome as his Mrs was a LOT fitter than mine!! \o/
I wouldn't advise it if you're in a serious thing though, we were just starting out so I wasn't fussed.
Had lots of MMF 3 ways, they are more fun than you'd think tbh especially if you're with a mate.
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Buztafen 17,543 posts
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Registered 14 years agoPaging Bigshot. -
Buztafen 17,543 posts
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Too late. -
HoraceGoesSquiffy 1,563 posts
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Registered 17 years agoOne way ticket to divorce / separation - sooner or later. If you value your partner, don't do it.
The thing about sexual gratification is this : just because you've done it once, it doesn't necessarily mean you won't want to do it again. -
Rufus 1,872 posts
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Registered 16 years agobigshot316 wrote:
Let's be clear- I don't mean I was getting gay, we just shared a girl!
It's not gay, when it's in a 3 way
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urban 13,148 posts
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Registered 17 years agoThis reeks of social impotence. I've had 2 threesomes. One in a relationship and one out of a relationship and both had zero after affects.
If you're doing one in a relationship you obviously both have to trust each other completely. I know a few girls who've had threesomes as the third party and the couple were jealous of each other getting with her which got awkward so she left because they clearly weren't in any state to trust each other. It's purely sexual gratification. Some people can't handle that.
The other one out of a relationship was a drunken Whey lets goto the casino! It was chinese new year and by entering the casino that night you got a raffle ticket, I won £250 2/3rds of which got blown on drink that night between the three of us.
My old flatmate and his uni girl friend who just happened to be out for drinks that night. Went back to the flat and it just happened. Spit roasting is kinda fun! I saw her for a few weeks after that for sex but that was it.
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Biggy316 25,288 posts
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Registered 13 years agoI like you .gif)
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sirtacos 8,279 posts
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Registered 14 years agoTBF, she brought it up first.
She's had one before. It was a spontaneous thing with a guy she'd slept with previously.
Since she told me that story, I haven't been able to get it out of my mind.
Problem is, I'm almost as turned on by the image of her having sex with that guy (the pangs of jealousy actually make it more arousing somehow) as with images of her having lesbian fun.
I'm dimly aware of the risks involved - especially considering the fact that I really like her - but my dirty mind just won't quit.
We've only been together for a few months, if that makes any difference.
We've already had a conversation about our respective feelings towards this, and the conclusion was "yeah! Let's do it, woo!". She did say she'd prefer it if I didn't come inside the other girl. I don't know whether that's a perfectly natural demonstration of jealousy, or a hint of some deeper discomfort...
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Dolly 3,653 posts
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Registered 15 years agoIs this some kind of toedip Tacos, for a possible Expo rendez-vous if the right sort of people turn up to this thread?
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Dolly 3,653 posts
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Registered 15 years agosirtacos wrote:
TBF, she brought it up first.
She's had one before. It was a spontaneous thing with a guy she'd slept with previously.
Since she told me that story, I haven't been able to get it out of my mind.
Problem is, I'm almost as turned on by the image of her having sex with that guy (the pangs of jealousy actually make it more arousing somehow) as with images of her having lesbian fun.
I'm dimly aware of the risks involved - especially considering the fact that I really like her - but my dirty mind just won't quit.
We've only been together for a few months, if that makes any difference.
Watch Chasing Amy. -
Blotto 2,778 posts
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Registered 11 years agoFor me:
Been together a couple of months, like her = Do it.
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sirtacos 8,279 posts
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Registered 14 years agoDolly wrote:
Is this some kind of toedip Tacos, for a possible Expo rendez-vous if the right sort of people turn up to this thread?
/amends travelodge booking to 3 persons, just in case.
Planting seeds... -
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sirtacos 8,279 posts
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Registered 14 years ago@Dolly: will do. I've been told it's good. If I can treat it as an instructional video on the pitfalls of kinkiness, then so much the better.
@ Blotto: Concise. My penis and I like the way you think.
@ kalel: TATU. It's TATU, isn't it. -
Dolly 3,653 posts
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Registered 15 years agokalel wrote:
I'm not saying which one, but I've had a threesome with two members of a well known girl band.
The Supremes? Five Star? Daphne & Celeste? -
PhoenixFlames 9,263 posts
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Registered 14 years agokalel wrote:
I'm not saying which one, but I've had a threesome with two members of a well known girl band.
Cleopatra? Bucks Fizz? Bananarama? -
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Boyzone -
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Grump 1,208 posts
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Registered 17 years agoWilson Philips.
The fat one counts as 2. -
nickthegun 87,712 posts
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Registered 16 years agoThe Supremes -
My money's on the ugly sisters from B*Witched.
Too late. .gif)
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