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Match.com and Online Dating v2 • Page 565
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Salaman 24,162 posts
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Registered 17 years agoI think I missed that particular episode. -
Decks 31,014 posts
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Registered 6 years agoWasn't long ago
http://www.eurogamer.net/forum/thread/249037?start=16620 -
Lukus 24,643 posts
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Registered 17 years agoI'm pretty sure they met on the Undateables... -
Wonder where they are now? Probably round at Dreams smashing up the beds. -
Lukus 24,643 posts
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Registered 17 years agoThey've rutted their way to Australia. -
He done knocked his oinker's hip out of socket -
Thats some violent copulation right there. Broken beds, dislocated hips and a hole right through the earth to Australia. -
Ziz0u 11,006 posts
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Registered 12 years agoHere's a juicy update.
So last night we said it was over. She was being very blunt with her messages. Opening with 'we can't do this anymore, sorry to talk about this on Whatsapp' or whatever. I had mixed feelings but agreed. Anyway, she messaged me again asking if I want to meet for a drink because it's difficult to explain over text.
So we did. So her brother told his girlfriend that his sister and I 'hooked up' (in a kissing sense), and the girlfriend absolutely lost her shit. Like, really. She actually stormed out after telling sis to cut contact. Her reasoning? My ex. It's too soon, it will hurt my ex who's one of her besties etc. All valid points of course, but I felt a little peeved and obviously left out of the conversation.
Her brother has now been turned (to save his own relationship it seems) and also thinks it isn't a good idea. He is also not replying to my texts. I messaged him 'apologizing' for everything, but also that I wish I had been involved in the conversation because a lot of assumptions are being made.
Long story short, sis and I after sitting awkwardly across from each other while she told me this stuff, ended up back at mine again last night anyway
So yeah, it is fucked up. -
Decks 31,014 posts
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Registered 6 years agoBloody saffers. This is going to end with someone getting shot. -
twelveways 7,131 posts
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Registered 15 years agoI thought it was an intruder m'lady -
Syrette 51,181 posts
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Registered 19 years agoThat's some teenage shit going on right there. -
Ziz0u 11,006 posts
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Registered 12 years agoIt really is some teenage drama.
We agreed last night to 'cool it' for a couple of months because it seems like the issue is it being too quick. She said we don't really have to cool it except in anyone else's eyes.
I'm super confused. I'll feel much better when her brother replies to me.
Anyway, I just want my old life back. -
Decks 31,014 posts
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Registered 6 years agoAs someone who has lost a few friends for putting my penis somewhere it shouldn't have been you might want to think this through. Chances are whatever this is won't last so if it's going to really piss people off I'd maybe try to stop thinking with your dick. -
Psiloc 6,368 posts
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Registered 14 years agoYeah you need to quit while you're ahead here. -
Ziz0u 11,006 posts
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Registered 12 years agoYeah. If he hasn't replied by this afternoon, I'm going to pop him another message saying I'm going to leave it for the sake of our friendship.
She is constantly online and she hasn't seen a message I sent 5 mins after dropping her off asking if she took her keys, so it's safe to say she is probably being bombarded at the moment by her brother and his gf, so maybe it's being ended for me as I type.
Seeing my ex for the first time in a month this evening for another kick in the gut.
Last night was the first time I actually considered how this whole thing will make her feel, and she's been so nice to me, and isn't taking the break up well, so I do hope if it's just going to end that my friend's gf won't bother telling her about this whole episode. -
Derblington 35,161 posts
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Registered 17 years agoTold you.
Fuck the ex, that's over. Time is relative, everyone handles things differently. You can't break up with someone and then get upset when they move on. Well, you can, but it's tough shit frankly.
Again, this is no-one else's business but yours and the new lady. No one has to like it, they just need to support your decisions, because you're adults and are capable of doing that.
Clear it with the brother, obviously, though ignoring texts is childish too. Decide what the two of you want to do and let everyone else know, that's really all there is to it. -
quadfather 39,071 posts
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Registered 11 years agoI can't keep up -
Its time to GTFO and kick sexy time to the kerb for a month or two and get your head cleared. Tell her you want to try dating men for a while. -
Ziz0u 11,006 posts
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Edited by Ziz0u at 09:55:24 10-06-2016 -
Ziz0u 11,006 posts
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Registered 12 years agoDerblington wrote:
Shit, I hope it turns out like this, and I can attempt to make it so. At least there's going to be a break from it all for a while now that she (and her brother) are going home to their parents (mom is totally cool with this all btw) for a while.
Told you.
Fuck the ex, that's over. Time is relative, everyone handles things differently. You can't break up with someone and then get upset when they move on. Well, you can, but it's tough shit frankly.
Again, this is no-one else's business but yours and the new lady. No one has to like it, they just need to support your decisions, because you're adults and are capable of doing that.
Clear it with the brother, obviously, though ignoring texts is childish too. Decide what the two of you want to do and let everyone else know, that's really all there is to it.
I feel like her brother (being influenced by his girlfriend) has way too much influence over her for your suggestion to work, but I feel like I do have the balls to do it like that but I can't if she isn't on-board with going about it that way. I guess if she isn't, then she obviously doesn't want it badly enough and I can't do anything about that.
Regarding my ex, obviously I don't want her to be hurt and it will be easy enough to keep it on the sly from her for a couple of months. I'll at least try. I don't see her, I don't really speak to her, so it won't come from me.
Anyway, looking forward to a break myself and it's out of my hands at this very moment at least. -
Dougs 100,415 posts
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Registered 18 years agoTime to stop thinking about your cock and do the right thing. Clearly, she's a bit immature emotionally to handle this and if the decision last night was to leave it, then that's what you should stick to and not jump back in to bed with her. Let the dust settle for a few months and then if there is still something there then, pick it back up. But I'd be straight with her and her brother that the timing wasn't right and let them chill out about it. -
Is everyone else in this saga a teenager? What a bunch of drama queens they sound.
You and your ex had a relationship, it didn't work out, end of story. You're going to move on and who ever is the slower to do so will possibly feel hurt, but that is their problem.
Oddly I think the only one with any common sense in all this is the 19 year old. Seriously, chill the hell out and let the other muppets say and do whatever they want and stop over thinking stuff.
Or just what Derbs said. -
Ziz0u 11,006 posts
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Registered 12 years agoOk, cool. I'm going to leave it at that. Believe me, I am really bored of how much of a soap-opera this has become and want a conclusion either way and will just man up and do whichever is the right thing to do.
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It was a long time ago when I last dated a teen (or thereabouts)* but as I remember it they were generally very changeable. Talk to one for a bit and you're surprised how mature and interesting they sound, then they're really affectionate in things they say and text messages and it's borderline talking about love, then something happens and they want something different. Usually they handle the breakup in a mature way by sending you a text message such as It's getting too serious, I don't want to be tied down(!), and so on.
That's very close to what's happening here with the added pressure of your best friend and still having feelings for your ex.
*I should point out I'm talking about being mid-20s and meeting someone around 18-21. -
Psiloc 6,368 posts
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Registered 14 years agoTeenagers don't know what they want yet, and nor should they. It can go from "I love you" to "I think we should see other people" in the space of a week.
It's not like it ends the moment they turn 20 either. My mate, late 20's, has a habit of dating girls in their early 20's and it's the same hot and cold stuff with all of them.
It's a big risk considering it looks like he's alienating all of his friends is what I'm saying. -
Tryhard 12,014 posts
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Registered 11 years agoGlad when i was young there were no mobile phones, and Facebook shit. It's all like Eastenders on roids now. -
Derblington 35,161 posts
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Registered 17 years agoPsiloc wrote:
This is people. Relationships change; they get better, worse, some end. I've dated a 35 year old that ended a 10 month relationship one Sunday night after 2 evenings away with a couple of girlfriends. Shit happens.
Teenagers don't know what they want yet, and nor should they. It can go from "I love you" to "I think we should see other people" in the space of a week.
It's not like it ends the moment they turn 20 either. My mate, late 20's, has a habit of dating girls in their early 20's and it's the same hot and cold stuff with all of them.
It's a big risk considering it looks like he's alienating all of his friends is what I'm saying.
Do what makes you happy, and other people should be on board providing you're not intentionally hurting anyone. This thing that Ziz is going through is pretty straight forward. The drama is all the outsiders getting involved. -
quadfather 39,071 posts
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Registered 11 years agoTryhard wrote:
I just threw sticks and nicked apples
Glad when i was young there were no mobile phones, and Facebook shit. It's all like Eastenders on roids now. -
quadfather wrote:
Those were the days my friend.
Tryhard wrote:
I just threw sticks and nicked apples
Glad when i was young there were no mobile phones, and Facebook shit. It's all like Eastenders on roids now.
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