Match.com and Online Dating v2 Page 567

  • Tryhard 10 Jun 2016 13:46:21 12,014 posts
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    whatfruit wrote:
    @Tryhard Ninja is the name of the lead singer of Die Antwood. Kersal Massive drove vaxhall Nova's with Twin Turbos but are regular users of the Stagecoach Daysaver.
    That's almost as confusing as what PES originally said. :D

    Edit- New page, why i ought ah.

    Edited by Tryhard at 13:46:54 10-06-2016
  • Tryhard 10 Jun 2016 13:49:45 12,014 posts
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    As a wise farmer once told me, "You reap what you sow."
  • Ziz0u 10 Jun 2016 13:52:54 11,006 posts
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    Rivuzu wrote:
    Who would have thought fucking your friends barely legal sister would have upset him, huh?

    But hey, at least you didn't do it behind peoples backs, running around and being dishonest.

    And at least she means something to you and you aren't constantly thinking back to your Ex unfairly and making comparisons.

    You straight shooter you. Way to cut out the drama and not instigate any trouble!
    Yup. That's me.
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 13:56:01
    Hope none of the involved read EG as it seems a pretty recognisable situation now.  A few pics would help though.
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 14:00:33
    You should just keep seeing her against your friends wishes until he accepts that you like having sex with his little sister. He needs to come to terms with her sucking your wrinkly old man balls until you spunk on her face lovingly.

    If he can't accept that then he is obviously not a true friend and you need to move on.

    Yours

    Montel

  • Psiloc 10 Jun 2016 14:02:31 6,368 posts
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    Ziz0u wrote:
    Ok well, sis and I are still ok, but we seem to be fooling ourselves, because the brother and I are not ok at all. Actually pretty upsetting how he's reacting. I sent him pretty long, thoughtful messages, downplaying me and his sister and up-playing he and I and he doesn't seem to give a shit. He's not even really telling me what the issue is. He did however say I need to tell my ex about this which I outright refused in a stern manner and at that stage I just just left it and told him to relax and stop being ridiculous and to chill out a little because I have done nothing wrong and am going to cool it with his sister, so what's the issue?

    So this has gone swimmingly. His sister asked me to meet her out tonight and I said I can't. I honestly don't feel like seeing her as the thought of losing her brother's friendship, despite him being unfair, is way more of a concern to me now than investing more time into this 'relationship.
    It's weird that you seem surprised by this turn of events to be honest.
  • Ziz0u 10 Jun 2016 14:02:34 11,006 posts
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    Doubtful... I hope.

    Anyway, I had the chance to see her tonight, she's really pushing it, but I'm going to go watch movies at my neighbor upstairs, maybe fill them in on the situation but definitely remove myself from the grid for the night.
  • M83J01P97 10 Jun 2016 14:06:15 7,607 posts
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    Just tell her you don't think it's worth it anymore and end it. Sounds like your stringing her along as well know hoping that something may change and suddenly everyone will be cool with you seeing her.
  • Ziz0u 10 Jun 2016 14:06:42 11,006 posts
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    whatfruit wrote:
    You should just keep seeing her against your friends wishes until he accepts that you like having sex with his little sister. He needs to come to terms with her sucking your wrinkly old man balls until you spunk on her face lovingly.

    If he can't accept that then he is obviously not a true friend and you need to move on.

    Yours

    Montel

    This is literally the plan if we did continue. Wear everyone down over time by taking it easy and allowing 'too soon' to not be valid anymore. Could work since the main concern is 'too soon' and for my ex. The age difference hasn't really been mentioned but I'm sure it's in the back of their minds.

    Anyhoo, @Psiloc

    Not surprised but still a blow. He did respond now to my barrage of messages with a 'just leave it for now. Let's get a beer next week'. Which is good I suppose, except for the fact that we had plans for tomorrow which he is clearly cancelling.

    @M8

    Yup. It is a foolish plan. I have pretty much ended it now anyway and am focusing on the brother. Zoinks.

    Edited by Ziz0u at 14:08:30 10-06-2016
  • Rivuzu 10 Jun 2016 14:15:04 18,424 posts
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    I have pretty much ended it now anyway and am focusing on the brother
    Really just want to take that sentence out of context.
  • RichDC 10 Jun 2016 14:19:26 9,177 posts
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    :D
  • Derblington 10 Jun 2016 14:20:27 35,161 posts
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    It won't end here either. There will be more sexy fun times together, you mark my words.
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 14:22:26
    You mean love affirming genitalia coupling.
  • Psychotext 10 Jun 2016 14:31:18 70,652 posts
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    Bro thing is understandable... but I'm still not seeing what the fuck it has to do with your ex. She's your fucking ex for fucks sake. (fuck)

    Did you leave her, her leave you, or was it one of those awfully pleasant conscious uncoupling?
  • retro74 10 Jun 2016 14:33:19 3,802 posts
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    Rivuzu wrote:
    I have pretty much ended it now anyway and am focusing on the brother
    Really just want to take that sentence out of context.
    I think that is the key to this probably completely made up story

    The sister is the stop gap, the real love is with the brother - obvs
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 14:35:06
    Yes, backstory about the ex please. Who ended it and had it been going wrong for sometime or was everything apparently normal for one side?
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 14:54:47
    When I said tell her you were interested in dating men, I wasnt really meaning her brother, but that will work. 
  • retro74 10 Jun 2016 15:22:59 3,802 posts
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    quadfather wrote:
    I've a "story" lined up for when this one's done, chaps :)
    anyway @quadfather you may as well lay this on us until the other story continues
  • Ziz0u 10 Jun 2016 15:25:51 11,006 posts
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    Ex and I had been together for 9 years. She has always longed to live the life of a traveling free spirit, but I 'held her back' and we made a go of it with a couple of relapses throughout the years.

    Then on her 28th b day she said she is going. I plead, we stayed together deciding hat to do, all compromises fell through, it ended. It sucks because technically we were fine other than that but want different things in life. I am settled and she is unsettled. it has grated on us over the years, so despite me thinking we could make it work, I am ready to move on and stop holding her back.
  • Ziz0u 10 Jun 2016 15:26:46 11,006 posts
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    EDIT

    Edited by Ziz0u at 15:46:32 10-06-2016
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 15:30:42
    Don't give a fuck? There's telling your issue, and then there's showing really personal info. Poor show.
  • Psychotext 10 Jun 2016 15:31:04 70,652 posts
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    So she left you because she wanted to have her cake and eat it. Bollocks to her. Selfish fucker.

    Edit - Not sure I'd really count a couple of first names as a big deal personally. Phone number, twitter account, email address, full name, sure, but not someone's first name.

    Edited by Psychotext at 15:32:44 10-06-2016
  • DJCopa 10 Jun 2016 15:31:15 2,578 posts
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    You don't HAVE to tell her, but you can't expect others to keep the whole thing a secret either.

    Let it all out and be free!
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 15:34:18
    Maybe, and this is just a thought here, but maybe conducting all this shit over text message and WhatsApp isn't a good idea.

    Also, maybe, and this is also just a thought here, but maybe you should be mature and accept that banging your friend's sister who looks 14 is a dick move, and trying to "wear everyone down" until they accept it is an even bigger dick move.
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 15:36:04
    Psychotext wrote:
    So she left you because she wanted to have her cake and eat it. Bollocks to her. Selfish fucker.

    Edit - Not sure I'd really count a couple of first names as a big deal personally. Phone number, twitter account, email address, full name, sure, but not someone's first name.
    Posting screenshots of a conversation is a bit ott for me. OK perhaps not personal, but if I saw my conversation on a forum I'd probably think it's a bit weird.
  • Deleted user 10 June 2016 15:37:01
    @Ziz0u come on, at least blank out the pictures and names in that screenshot.
  • rockavitch 10 Jun 2016 15:37:03 1,303 posts
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    She didn't want to be with you, her choice, so fuck her. You don't have to tell her anything as it's non of her business. Really is as simple as that.
  • Psychotext 10 Jun 2016 15:37:27 70,652 posts
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    Gremmoo wrote:
    Also, maybe, and this is also just a thought here, but maybe you should be mature and accept that banging your friend's sister who looks 14 is a dick move, and trying to "wear everyone down" until they accept it is an even bigger dick move.
    You really have to wonder what was going through his head when he typed that. lol
  • Ziz0u 10 Jun 2016 15:40:23 11,006 posts
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    Yeah, it's just first names and I'm not really called Buggie on my birth certificate.

    Of course I wish I could talk to them in person but they are barely talking to me on text. I am very left out in this whole thing. I replied pretty much saying I don't have to tell and reiterating why not but she will tell regardless so I may as well. What else can I do?

    And the whole 'looks 14' thing is neither here nor there. At this stage I actually like her a lot. Feelings and shit, but of course the odds are stacked against us but fuck me for wanting to try anyway.

    Just livening up this thread. It's going as poorly as it could, so I may as well share it for your lolz.
  • retro74 10 Jun 2016 15:41:16 3,802 posts
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    @Ziz0u let the brother's GF tell her. You owe your ex nothing in that respect

    I'd just say "Yeah no problem, do what you have to do. Laters!"
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