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  • JamboWayOh 2 Jan 2020 13:30:08 17,133 posts
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    Is the friend zone actually a thing or is it just that they don't fancy you?
  • Decks Best Forumite, 2016 2 Jan 2020 13:31:43 22,599 posts
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    What's the difference?
  • mrpon 2 Jan 2020 13:39:48 35,801 posts
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    Friend zone is when they twist the knife in.
  • JamboWayOh 2 Jan 2020 13:40:31 17,133 posts
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    I don't think there is, I just hear people say as it as if there was some chance to begin with and they could have changed their mind. I don't know, I think using the term Friend Zone implies that attraction is a choice.
  • Load_2.0 2 Jan 2020 13:41:32 30,630 posts
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    It IS.

    Bitches hold all the cards.
  • Load_2.0 2 Jan 2020 13:43:55 30,630 posts
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    Friend Zone basically means you have all the qualities they look for except physically.

    So they get all the best of you. Your company, your jokes, help with moving house, all your time and effort and they refuse to be mounted.

    Which is why forced coupling is so vital in 2020.
  • Decks Best Forumite, 2016 2 Jan 2020 13:47:07 22,599 posts
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    I could do with some girl friends. How do I stop every woman I meet wanting to have sex with me?
  • JamboWayOh 2 Jan 2020 13:49:38 17,133 posts
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    Decks wrote:
    I could do with some girl friends. How do I stop every woman I meet wanting to have sex with me?
    The PUAs tell me you don't get women if you make yourself available and are complimentary to them and show them respect. That's what a CUCK would do.
  • Iwasexclusive 2 Jan 2020 13:51:12 82 posts
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    You guys are such whiners. Do you know how hard it is to get a girl when you're only 5ft 5in?! My wife doesn't understand why I don't match with anyone. She thinks I'm wonderful.
  • askew 2 Jan 2020 16:30:27 20,672 posts
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    8bitMofo wrote:
    askew wrote:
    Live. Laugh. Love.


    One life. Live it.
    Inspirational. I'm going to have this mesage printed on a block of wood and hang it on my wall, surrounded by fairy lights!
    :D Don't forget: "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
  • Bichii 2 Jan 2020 16:40:43 2,377 posts
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    Haha load on form, last four posts there made me laugh.

    Friends zone is just a term I think some people use when they thought they had s chance but they never did.

    I've given up for now with the online dating. Seem to be having date after date and it's always a let down. They are either boring, not attractive, crazy, clingy. One I actually liked and he said after two dates he wasn't ready for dating and it was just too soon after his previous long relationship. Maybe I was friend zoned!

    Edited by Bichii at 16:46:43 02-01-2020
  • johnnyrocketfingers 2 Jan 2020 16:56:23 233 posts
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    I think this season isn't best for it. Although it should be, lots of things to do.

    @Bichii

    Are you keeping in touch? Cause you're probably just kicked off the pitch. That's the usual outcome. But my recent friend zoning; I matched with a lady and when she went back to netherlands for christmas started telling me about a coffee date and her follow up witcher+netflix second date. re: "Okay"
  • JamboWayOh 2 Jan 2020 16:58:26 17,133 posts
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    johnnyrocketfingers wrote:
    I think this season isn't best for it. Although it should be, lots of things to do.

    @Bichii

    Are you keeping in touch? Cause you're probably just kicked off the pitch. That's the usual outcome. But my recent friend zoning; I matched with a lady and when she went back to netherlands for christmas started telling me about a coffee date and her follow up witcher+netflix second date. re: "Okay"
    What?
  • LegendaryApe 2 Jan 2020 21:30:42 1,917 posts
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    Load_2.0 wrote:
    Garfy wrote:
    New year, new start.

    I want to get back out there and start looking again.

    Get my life moving forward again rather than wallowing in the failures of the past.

    Not sure how to begin but the world is my lobster and I'm feeling strangely optimistic
    She's dead... isn't she Garfy.
    Death by cock-ulate
  • KD 2 Jan 2020 21:48:59 2,341 posts
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    Complain about the friendzone like I did, 3 years later she kills herself 2 months after you last spent months with her and brought her from a dark place to once again get jealous when she started talking to a guy she liked.

    I will add she helped me get more girls after we split than I ever did before. Meh I'll live with regret and try be the friend.
  • KD 2 Jan 2020 21:50:11 2,341 posts
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    That's a bit dark and from nowhere but the conversation made me write it heh.
  • JamboWayOh 2 Jan 2020 21:53:34 17,133 posts
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    Errr.......
  • fontgeeksogood 2 Jan 2020 21:58:22 8,686 posts
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    Even in death they hold all the fucking cards
  • KD 2 Jan 2020 22:04:33 2,341 posts
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    They fucking do heh, you live and learn.
  • challenge_hanukkah 2 Jan 2020 22:09:25 12,022 posts
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    She didn't.
  • johnnyrocketfingers 3 Jan 2020 09:46:23 233 posts
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    @Lukus I'm not angry, they're obviously bots or they swipe everyone to the right so they match with no intentions. Does anyone else do that? Just swipe everyone in some weird playing the numbers game?
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    Talking of people appearing to be some kind of weird bot....
  • macmurphy 3 Jan 2020 10:15:46 4,160 posts
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    johnnyrocketfingers wrote:
    @Lukus I'm not angry, they're obviously bots or they swipe everyone to the right so they match with no intentions. Does anyone else do that? Just swipe everyone in some weird playing the numbers game?
    My mate does that. He just canít be arsed so he swipes right to everything and just unmatches the huge majority of matches.
  • SnackPlissken 3 Jan 2020 11:12:00 1,480 posts
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    Just don't go into dating with any expectations. You'll be far happier that way.
  • Bichii 3 Jan 2020 11:36:13 2,377 posts
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    Eh? Kicked off the pitch for not keeping in touch? Strange.
  • johnnyrocketfingers 3 Jan 2020 12:24:27 233 posts
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    Maybe not the best metaphor. I'm just questioning the term 'friendzone' and if people actually can/do transition to a friend/platonic relationship or if they're in some 'zone' where they're only hanging around with an expectation it might change in the future or say friends cut off all communication.

    Edited by johnnyrocketfingers at 12:27:10 03-01-2020
  • Bichii 3 Jan 2020 12:30:15 2,377 posts
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    To me if I were to use the phase it just means that I think he is a nice guy and I enjoy my time with him but in no way do I "fancy" him and he is the same as any of my female friends. Definitely no chance of there ever being a relationship.
  • HairyArse 3 Jan 2020 12:51:57 1,379 posts
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    Bichii wrote:
    One I actually liked and he said after two dates he wasn't ready for dating and it was just too soon after his previous long relationship. Maybe I was friend zoned!
    Yeah I'd call bullshit on that. If he wasn't ready for dating why did he go on two dates with you? Maybe it was the crazy in your eyes ;)
  • fontgeeksogood 3 Jan 2020 12:54:00 8,686 posts
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    Or the cock in your knickers
  • sport 3 Jan 2020 12:57:07 15,563 posts
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    fontgeeksogood wrote:
    Or the cock in your knickers
    Thanks, my keyboard needed a coffee shower :-D
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